Ask Brien

Can I file for divorce without a lawyer in Kitsap County?

Yes. And more people do it than you might think.

In Washington state, you have the right to represent yourself in a divorce proceeding. The legal term is "pro se" -- Latin for "on one's own behalf." It's common, it's legal, and the Kitsap County Superior Court Clerk's office is set up to help self-represented people navigate the process.

Here's what the process looks like at a high level.

You start by filing a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage with the Superior Court Clerk's office. There's a filing fee, though fee waivers are available if you qualify based on income or the judge can grant a payment plan as well. The Clerk's office can tell you how to apply for a waiver.

If both parties agree on everything -- division of assets, any child-related matters, support -- you're looking at an uncontested dissolution. Washington state has a mandatory 90-day waiting period from the date of filing before a divorce can be finalized, regardless of how smoothly things go. If there are contested issues, the process is more complex and a judge will need to make decisions.

This is where I want to be honest with you: filing the paperwork is something most people can do on their own. Navigating contested issues -- especially anything involving children, significant assets, or disagreements about support -- is where having a lawyer makes a real difference. I'm not a lawyer and I can't give legal advice, but I can tell you that the stakes in those situations are high enough that professional guidance is worth exploring.

For self-represented litigants, the Kitsap County Superior Court has a Facilitator's Office specifically designed to help people understand the process and the forms. They can't represent you or tell you what decisions to make, but they can help you understand what you're looking at. Ask for the Facilitator when you come in.

— Brien Kennedy